It depends on each Individual. However. there are some general guides: The law states that the age where a man can get married is from 20, and that the age where a woman can get married Is from 18. At these age, everybody is physically and spychologically old enough to give birth, to bring up and to take care of their children, Moreover, their general knowledge about life is pretty enough for them to live on their own. However, those are not the best ages since a couple needs a stable job to make enough money for their living and to support the family.
They also have to be mature In their thought, to have the ability to think by themselves, to make their own decisions, to face difficulties and to solve problems. Thus, I think they should be at least 23 when getting married. In general, a person graduates from university (or other schools) is about 22, they’ll get a Job at about 23. They need some more years to build up experiences, to save money, to strengthen their relationship with others and their positions in work.
That is, the best age for men is 30 or so, for women is 28 or o, In short, at this stage, they have got a good background of life, good enough to be independent. Yes! I agree with you. It depends on each person. But the difficult problem is money and positions in work. Nowadays, as i see many people graduate from university/ college to be get married, although their life Is not stable. think, It ‘s not good for them, they should have some more years to build up their conditions and have abilities to think and solves somethings.
And, this is a social problems that women and men should think about It before to be decide to get married. For a man is 28-30 and woman is 25-27 is the best ( as my opinion In this stage they have got experiences, good background In their life and they enough knowledges for preparing to find a half of his/her life. In my opinion, nowadays, the best age to marry Is twenty-seven years old. Firstly, after one graduates from a university, he/she has to take time to find a Job – his/her age is around 22-23 years old.
Some try to get master degree, some try to have a stable Job, but trying to get master degree or having a stable occupation also take at least 2-3 ears, so, the average age of a stable Job or a master degree then is 25-26 ages. At this time, I think It’s the right time to think about family, because, at the aspect of finance, people may have enough money to earn their life, fully independent from their parents. And I think as a man, It’s a shame when he can’t guarantee his family finance. Secondly, at these ages, people are mature enough to take care of their partner of life.
After trying In work life, It’s time to think about family life, with a happy family, their children, their dream house I think one of the reasons in the ancient ge, the stage of unhappy family stayed for a long time because people get married too soon, he/she is not mature enough, he/she did not know how to teach his/her children. A happy person is a person who has a happy family and a successful career. Before It’s late, I think the best age to marry Is 27 years old because at this time, almost people are mature enough to take care of their own family; furthermore, tney are also Independent In Tlnance.
Many people 0T us tnlnK tnat tne Dest age to marry as we are around 25 to 30 years old. why do they think so ? heir answers are: + when we are around 25 to 30 ages we will have good experiences, have a good background of life, have a good enough to independent income. + when we are around 25 to 30 ages we will mature enough to take care of our own family, furthermore, we are also independent in finance. + when we are around 25 to 30 ages we will have enough knowledges for getting marry. Having own decisions to solve difficulty problems ourselves.
I think the above opinons arenot wrong but I also think that if you were a 0K man ,a 0K women for all sites. ( ofcoures OK= it is edium)you should get marry rightnow as you possible. In here ! I want to say that the age for getting marry isnot still a important problem …. because of love isnot age without you…. I think so… if you have a truthly lover why donot you get marry him / her???? what do you waite for! Good experiences!!! good background of life!!! Good independent good possition in work!!! Wait until??? Some prefer to marry when they still are at a university, some being old, while others are already grandfathers.
I do not belong to each of these groups of people, because I find that people marry when they are already old enough to work, but in contrast they are not too old to have difficulties in making a family. First, people should marry when they are confidence of themselves and can make important decisions. For example, my classmates married Just after finishing the school. They parents of course would not like them to marry, but “no one could stop them because they were already grown-ups and were able to make decisions themselves”. These words are the words of the lawyer.
Actually, they were not able even to grow a pet, because they inds were still young, and in a year they divorced because they never wanted to live together, also wanted to get a high education, moreover they had to find a Job in order to keep themselves. Thus, they were not capable to stand these difficulties that were the reason of their divorce. Therefore, so as not to commit such crucial mistakes I prefer to marry when I graduate from the university, have a permanent Job to keep my family. Also, people should marry before they get too old to find a suitable girl. For example, my neighbor is about thirty five and has not yet married.