Compare and contrast Romeo and Paris
Romeo and Juliet, written by William Shakespeare, even today, is a standout amongst the most famous and sensational plays ever indited. Despite the fact that Romeo and Paris are alike in few ways, their numerous distinctions in character and intense desire for Juliet exceed their related characteristics. Their affection for Juliet is shown in the same way, yet their reasons for love are shown differently. Romeo is very loving, kind and wins over girls by his charm and passion. Paris on the other hand, is loving, kind and tries to win over girls even if it means hurting them in the end.
Also, Paris forces himself into Juliet’s life through her father, rather than trying to get her to love him directly. On the contrary, Romeo wins over Juliet’s heart with romance and passion. Romeo and Paris are compared throughout the play and it is very clear that they are different in many more ways than they are similar. The most obvious similarity between Romeo and Paris is that both of them are engrossed in their love for Juliet. Furthermore, Romeo is instantly in love with Juliet the first time he lays his eyes on her at the Capulet’s party.
In fact, the morning after Romeo and Juliet stay the night together, Romeo tells Juliet: Let me be ta’en; let me be put to death. ? I am content, so thou wilt have it so. ? I’ll say yon gray is not the morning’s eye; ? ‘Tis but the pale reflex of Cynthia’s brow.? Nor that is not the lark whose notes do beat ? The vaulty heaven so high above our heads. ? I have more care to stay than will to go.? Come death and welcome. Juliet wills it so. How is ‘t, my soul? Let’s talk. It is not day.
Clearly, Romeo is not supposed to be with Juliet, but he tells her that even though they are at risk of getting caught together, he is willing to stay there if Juliet wants him to, even if it means being put to death. In addition, Paris loves Juliet as well. After Paris gets permission from Capulet to marry Juliet, Paris is unaware that his love and attraction for Juliet is unrequited. After Juliet has supposedly died, Paris begins to show his love towards her by scattering flowers on her tomb.
As he places the flowers, he talks to Juliet’s dead body and he tells her that his nightly ritual will be to take care of the flowers for her while he mourns over her. Unquestionably, both Romeo and Paris love and care for Juliet. Romeo and Paris’s differences are much more apparent than their similarities. The most apparent difference between Romeo and Paris is the Capulet’s judgement of them. Seeing that Romeo is a Montague, the enemies of the Capulet family, the Capulet’s are not fond of Romeo and do not want Juliet to be around him.
On the other hand, Paris is very much respected and admired by them. Admittedly, Juliet does not feel the same way about him. When Paris gets permission to marry Juliet, she does not want to marry him. Although, because Paris is wealthy and a kinsman of the Prince, Juliet is being forced to marry him, yet, she wants to marry Romeo. Juliet tells her mother, “I will not marry yet, and when I do I swear/It shall be Romeo, whom you know I hate, Rather than Paris” (III. v. 165). Consequently, Capulet was extremely dissatisfied.
He asked Juliet if she realizes how much of a blessing it is to have the ability to marry such a good man such as Paris, and he tells Juliet to get ready to marry Paris or he will drag her to the wedding whether she likes it or not. Obviously, the Capulet’s disapprove of Romeo but absolutely adore Paris, they think he is the right man for Juliet to marry. Another difference between Romeo and Paris is that Romeo usually follows his emotions while Paris usually does what is more convenient for him.
In fact, Paris’s main reason for wanting to marry Juliet is because of her family. Undoubtedly, the Capulet’s are very wealthy. As Paris is a kinsman to the Prince, the Capulet’s can help him with business and money. Juliet is very young to marry, even her father says so, but that doesn’t stop Paris from wanting to marry her. Paris does not seem to care as to whether or not Juliet is pleased with marrying him, he never asks Juliet her opinion of him or of their circumstances, he assumes that she likes him.
On the other hand, Romeo wants to marry Juliet for the pure reason of attraction and love. He has not known her for that long of a time, but he knows since the first time he saw her that that he is in love with her. Juliet, as well, is in love with Romeo: Three words, dear Romeo, and good night indeed. If that thy bent of love be honorable, Thy purpose marriage, send me word tomorrow, By one that I’ll procure to come to thee, Where and what time thou wilt perform the rite, And all my fortunes at thy foot I’ll lay And follow thee my lord throughout the world. (II. ii. 79)
Juliet is telling Romeo that if he wants to marry her, she will send a messenger to him. When the messenger arrives, he is to tell Juliet where and when they are to get married. Undoubtedly, Paris and Romeo are very different when it comes to their ways of love. Paris is very conventional and he tries to marry Juliet through her father whereas Romeo win over Juliet in a more romantic way, through true love. Romeo and Paris are compared throughout the play, but they are clearly very different in many ways. Evidently, Paris is more interested in marrying Juliet for convenience.
She is pretty, young and her family can help Paris with business. He does not know that she does not love him back. Romeo, on the other hand, is in love with Juliet and he thinks that she is beautiful. Romeo doesn’t care about Juliet’s family or how much money she has. Nevertheless, his charm, passion and love for Juliet makes her fall in love with him as well. In the end, Romeo and Juliet is a play about a young girl and boy who’s love ended in a twisted tragedy. Yet, it is one of the most prominent and astonishing plays ever written.