Effects of bullying
The victim is perceived by the bullies to be weak and unable to defend his or her self. The victim feels as if he or she cannot retaliate to the aggressive behaviors and senses the bullies to be more powerful. There are many reasons why children bully other children. Typically it starts at home. In Jenney Cheever’s article online she states, “Children who lack adult supervision or who are abused at home are more likely to become bullies. ” If a child comes from an unaffectionate or inefficiently supervised home, he or she is more likely to become a ully.
Children whom have been abused or neglected are also more likely to push others around. Other reasons for bullying include having low self-esteem/self- confidence, or having a need to feel dominant and powerful. There are four main types of bullying on school-aged children. The first is physical, which includes physical violence and destruction of property. Next is verbal, this is the most common type of bullying, which includes any type of verbal harassment like name-calling, insults, sexual, homophobic, or racial remarks, or abusive language.
An online database for bullying states “Verbal bullying is the most frequent from of bullying, and can involve negative language that is sexual in nature… Sometimes, refers to another person’s actual or perceived sexual orientation” (“Teenage Bullying”). The third form of bullying is cyber bullying, which is becoming more common now that the majority of school-aged kids use cell phones and the internet. Last, but definitely not least, there is emotional bullying. This includes taunting and rumor spreading.
All of these types of bullying can have long-term lasting effects on children. No one type is less serious or less harmful than another. There are many different effects that bullying can have on children. Social isolation is a major problem in kids today. If children are bullied for any period of time, it can make them feel small and insecure in themselves, which can have a negative effect on the way they interact socially. Dr. Mark Dombeck states in his article at Mental Help “Bullying is an attempt to instill fear and self-loathing…
Being the repetitive target of bullying damages your ability to view yourself as a desirable, capable and effective individual” (Dombeck). Bullying can set children up for life-long helplessness and depression by making them feel like they are not good enough, and that they cannot defend themselves. Bullying may also lead to suicide in teenagers who fall into deep depression and feel like they have no friend in the world. Bullying is a form of abuse, and is also a narcissistic act. Dombeck states