I think John Wooden explains the definition of success very precisely. He tells us that hard work and having enthusiasm are the most important things in pursuing our goals. We will be successful when we make sure that we have done our best to reach our goals. Another important element is that we shouldn’t give up in our life. We shouldn’t be afraid of trying. If we fail we shouldn’t be discourage, but we have to learn from our mistakes and correct them and hold it as an experience.
Sometimes the goals that we have, are difficult to reach, but not impossible to pursue. Q b:Do you think his definition of success is accurate? Explain. A:I think Wooden’s definition of success definitely is accurate. John Wooden believes that to succeed, we should not be afraid to try. Even if we do not always reach our goal, when we know we have tried our best, we can feel satisfied with what we have learned from our mistakes. I agree with him. Also he talks about self- satisfaction, and I think that is an important element; self-satisfaction gives us the courage to keep pursuing our goals.
After reading how John Wooden explains and defines industriousness and enthusiasm tell us how you define them, how you can achieve them, and why they are the cornerstones. A:In my opinion, “Hard work” and “enthusiasm” are the first and the most important steps through the door of success. Having a strong foundation in our life is so important. For Example, for building a tower, engineers first start building the base. The base is the most important part of the tower; with out a strong base, the possibility of the tower falling is high.
In our life we will build other things based on these two cornerstones, so we must have develop good habits about working hard and being enthusiastic. This will make our life strong. What is “hard work”? Many of us just heard from our parents or our teachers that “hard work” is the most important element to succeed, or “hard work” is the key for the door of success. What does “hard work” mean? If we don’t know what is “hard work” how can we achieve it? “Hard work” to me is to try hard and not give up in our efforts. We have to try our best and not be afraid of losing. If we work hard we can know our capabilities better.
If we work hard, we get to know the world better and we communicate more with other people. “Hard work” helps us to reach our capabilities. Enthusiasm is the emotions that we bring in our work. Without enthusiasm, our life will be a machine life. When we approach our work with enthusiasm, we will do better in our job and we will give other people positive energy. Enthusiasm and hard work are complementary. If you don’t have enthusiasm but you work hard, you wouldn’t enjoy your accomplishments. Or, if you have enthusiasm but you don’t work hard, you wouldn’t achieve your goals.
In this way, enthusiasm and hard work complement each other, and therefore they are cornerstones of success. Q d:Pick one of the qualities that he has included in his pyramid that fits you best and explain why you chose that quality and why you believe that is the most important to you right now. A:The most important quality and the quality that fits me best is “team spirit”. “Team spirit” is an ability that helps us to listen to other people’s ideas; which helps us to work as a team not as an individual. “Team spirit” is not just for sports, but also it is an indispensible ability that people must have in order to succeed.
The reason why “team spirit” is so important is that human life is social; another way to say it is that people are dependent on each other. A person cannot live alone in the wide world. With teamwork people have better chance of prospering. For example, today, America’s debt is more than $14 trillion, and one person cannot pay the debt all by himself. The entire nation must work as a team to pay the debt. People form a nation; every single person must have the ability to work as a member of a team to solve large problems, like the national debt.
Always I try my best to listen more and talk less. By doing that I can see different ideas and different points of view, not just my own ideas, so I always can learn new things. In our age, we play team sports and we work on school projects as a team, so we need to have the ability to work together in order to be successful. Q e:Pick one of the qualities that you would like to improve in yourself from the pyramid and describe what it is you would like to improve upon and how you believe you can achieve that.
A:I like to improve the “self control”; maybe it is little early to think about it, but I believe “self control” is one the most important ability that a person must have in order to succeed. What is “self control”? Why we need to have the ability to control our selves? “Self control” is the ability that we can control our feelings and our emotions. People who can’t control their emotions are reactive. They react to other people’s actions; they react to the life. They don’t decide on their own, the decide base on their emotions and base on people’s actions.
As Sean Covey wrote in his book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens, “Reactive people make choices based on impulse. They are like a can of soda pop. If life shakes them up a bit, the pressure builds up and they suddenly explode. ” The best way to achieve that ability is to start practicing to correcting our selves, when we are young. When we are young, it is easier to change, because all of the habits are not build yet. One way is that every time when we feel we are out of control, warn our selves and start controlling. It takes time, so patient is so important too.