Parents as the first teacher
Parents as the first and foremost teachers
It is often said that parents are the first teacher of a child. As a priority, parents should be the first teacher in helping a child to become hard workers, kind, respectful, responsible and also helping them get away from social illnesses in our society. In order for a child to become hard workers, loving and supportive, parents must involve children of both genders in any home activities. If parents going out for nightclub; as a start to help keeping the child away from social illnesses, parents must keep children at home under the supervision of an adult. Parents must provide their children with their necessary needs so as to help them become responsible, respectful or kind.
Therefore, parents must take full responsibilities for helping a child to become well discipline, productive and someone who is with positive attitudes. First of all, parents are the primary teachers of moral values and attitudes. But in order for a child to have these characters, help the child to become hard workers, loving and supportive; therefore, parents must involve children of both genders in any home activities. In a speech when the 34th anniversary of Belize was celebrated at the park in Punta Gorda, Mr. Mohon said: “What parents teach their children by precept and example about moral and religious values helps them make wise choices, even in the face of biological urges or peer influences that would have them do otherwise.” One of my ideas for teaching children on these values: providing simple tasks to children at an early age.
Begin by having your child put away his/her own toys. Help your child at first so the task is not overwhelming. When I was a boy, Dad starts taking me to his farm when I was just six years old. At first I did not like it because of the sun heat that normally shines on my soft skin. Every time he goes to plantation I wanted to stay. But one evening he told me that when I grow old I might end up marrying a hard working farmer’s princess, meaning I must be prepared for any farm works. At home I help Mom wash dishes, sweep, or grind corn. I owe my parents a big THANK YOU because now I don’t really depend on my wife to do all the house chores. According to the Bible in Proverb 22:6, it gives us a hint why we must love and support children.
One way I suggest you to do that is simply by letting the child to help you with chores; a boy can help Mom and a girl can help Dad. You may be surprised at the fun children find in daily chores that you have long since tired of. Encourage and praise your child when he/she completes a task. Leave room for failure. If your child fails to complete a chore or doesn’t do a perfect job, don’t berate or embarrass that child. For more information the New Edition ‘MODULES IN SOCIAL STUDIES with SBA Guide RAMPERSAD RAMSAWAK & RALPH R. UMRAW’ on page 22 of this book clearly sated the roles of parents in the family. On this page I found out six important roles of parent in the family, therefore I recommend that you take time and read the information on your spare time. In addition, children’s behavior is like a mirror of their parents because they learn a lot from seeing what their parents do, whether it is good or bad.
Parents are out role models. Children are to be kept at home when parents going out for nightclub. Why? As I know, at any nightclub there must be someone drinking liquor, smoking or romancing. And I had a friend of mine who had a family of six. Every Saturday my friend and his whole family would go to the nightclub. One day the whole family decided to go bathe in the river, except for the oldest son who was eight years old. When the family came back home, they found out that Jorge is dead, lying on the floor with an empty red-top bottle in his hand. Whatever the child sees at the club, he/she might want to try it at home or anywhere he/she meets a friend. Children drinking alcohol at an early age can damage their internal organs leading them to stunted growth. Also, if they are addicted to it, one day they might get out of control and commit suicide or force someone to have sex with. As an example, the Amandala issued on the 6th of October stated one example of a perpetrator. “Last week October 2nd, 2013: “Despite the repeated warning issued by police to men not to have sexual relations with female minors, incidents of carnal knowledge continue to be reported. Carnal knowledge again _ the 15- year- old is pregnant, girl of Conejo village in Toledo.”
These things happen because most of the time parents forget to teach children about righteousness. Rather than taking children to places where there’s alcohol or drug consumption, take children to church for mass. I wish I would have read a reading from the Bible to the man who had sex with the young girl. There is so much I can do but as whole we must take this into consideration and make the environment a safer home for kids to live. So it is really helpful when children are to be kept home under the supervision of an adult when parent going out for nightclub. In that case there is great possibility for the parent to have a child grown up with good attitudes rather than just being a drunkard in the society. Remember, when a baby comes into this world, the baby does not know about the new environment.
Obviously, first persons that he communicates are his parents. Parents play prominent role in his/her life. It is true that they are the best teachers, but also someone who have to provide them with their basic needs such as: food, clothes, shelter, care, love, medications and education on prime time for the brain to acquire language skills. Without these needs, I strongly believe that children tend to go out begging and even burglarizing in villages or town. When they are fully grown, most of the time they take it as a habit but if caught they can be a dead man. Instead of enjoying time life at home with family they will end up living in jail for years also.
A proves to what I’m saying, reading the Amandala issued Sunday 6th, 2013, police in Punta Gorda are conducting an investigation to find the bandit who robbed and fired shots in a restaurant in P.G. at about 11:00 Friday night. These things can be done by your children if you don’t provide children with what they need. From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia ‘http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Children%27s_rights’ is a link that says “Children’s rights are the human rights of children with particular attention to the rights of special protection and care afforded to minors, including their right to association with both parents, human identity as well as the basic needs for food, universal state-paid education, health care and criminal laws appropriate for the age and development of the child, equal protection of the child’s civil rights, and freedom from discrimination on the basis of the child’s race, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, national origin, religion, disability, color, ethnicity, or other characteristics. Interpretations of children’s rights range from allowing children the capacity for autonomous action to the enforcement of children being physically, mentally and emotionally free from abuse, though what constitutes “abuse” is a matter of debate.
Other definitions include the rights to care and nurturing.” After reading all these information I have no doubt in saying that parents are not providers of children’s basic economic needs for survival, but rigorously they are. Finally, I would like to say that parents of today must help their children at an early age to become prepared for the life of a righteous man. Parents at home must work hard for their children. If you want a child not to have bad attitudes, parents must be a role model of love and righteousness. Providing children with their basic needs helps to keep a child from being just a troublemaker. Love your children with your whole heart. I urge you all parents to teach your kids how to love, to be responsible, respectful and to be kind with others. In conclusion, I would like to say that we should all tell society that parents are the children’s first and foremost teachers and it’s their duty to provide a child with what they need and to make a child successful in life. Experiences are good lesson to children. So I believe it’s out duty to look after them in their old age.